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Apr 12Liked by George Bothamley

This resonated with me George. Thank you. I am also alone but not lonely. The difference for me is that I am a 'talk to anyone' sort of person and I can find conversations with people and am fascinated to listen to their stories. I still don't 'fit in' anywhere and I finally feel okay about that.

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Apr 12Liked by George Bothamley

This is humbling. What a place at the table you have waiting if you want it. Like many poets you may not need it, but it’s yours for the taking.

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Apr 12Liked by George Bothamley

Selling fruits, vegetables, jams, and my artwork(on stationary) provided a tangible connection with the community. An exchange of , goods, energy, and conversation. The feeling of connection is real. Your wonderful column is a connection with communities and generates many positive feelings. I resonated with Giovanna Garzoni.

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I think there are lots of people who prefer being alone. I can only ‘people’ in short spurts. Being along is not the same as being lonely. I cannot help, but wonder if there is a faith undertone in your poem. Because I do not know you, I am not able to fully read between the lines.

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Apr 13Liked by George Bothamley

I am also a “waiting for people to approach” type person. Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful poetry.

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Apr 12Liked by George Bothamley

Very beautiful poem, you are wise beyond your years George!

I used to get the same feeling when I was younger (being shy and trying unsuccessfully to find a “connection”) and eventually found one in nature, gardening for me.

I know you will keep searching for your home, and hopefully one day realize you’re there. I certainly felt a connection to this post and I’m sure it will resonate with many. Thank you!

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These are lovely poems, George. I agree there is a huge difference between being alone and loneliness. The blessed solitude in being alone can sometimes bring peace and space to feel your truest feelings unobscured by the hectic, clamoring intensity of modern life. Many people are content with their own company. Loneliness on the other hand can bring depression and anxiety. Don't go there, will you?

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